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Emotionally tired in a relationship – Why being in hard places is a good thing

a bunny who seems very loving and kind evoking happiness and harmony . he seems in love and happy to see you

Why is it a good thing?

Feeling emotionally tired in a relationship is just the beginning of a new way to be in the world. That’s my experience and let me tell you more about it. I learned so much by being around difficult people. Toxic relationship I kept trying to remove myself from have been my greatest source of healing and wisdom. It’s ridiculously hard, almost to the point of exhaustion and you feel so sad and angry that you think there is no way this could be your path. That is not for you to decide, only your spirit knows what is best for your enlightenment journey.

You’ve heard this before but let me make it personal. You are not doing anything wrong, it’s all crash course where you will learn what you truly want to know. You have a question within you, a burning quest. Be honest, what do you actually want in this life…truth or peace?  You want to just be comfy and have an easy stroll trough life or do you actually want to burn with great passion and uncover incredible truths about yourself and your universe ? You always wanted to know things. Well here you are in the perfect place to study life.

We do not have the clarity but if we would be super wise we would realize that each heart connection has a main theme and many sub themes. You are exploring a pattern, a way of living and you are doing amazing. Now this isn’t suppose to be torture but we’re just not used to access the right tools that would make the exploration easier.

Have Faith

Be open to the inspiration that naturally will find you when you are dealing with darkness. That’s the part that is rarely acknowledged, that being in difficult places leads to great moments of clarity. Wisdom permeates your daily chaos and as time passes, you lose power, you lose comfort, you lose many many things in the fire but you gain answers to your truest questions.

Why am I here ? What is my path? What is healing? What is true power ? As you go along, these questions become alive in you and your whole life is now the answer. You walk your path, live your day and you add to the knowledge and I am sure anyone can confirm that struggle equals wisdom.

Be honest, do you crave knowledge? Have you always been a curious kid always looking to understand how things work? Well this is your open book. It doesn’t feel this way when you are burning in the whole spectrum of your emotions, but in the short times when it cools down, you sure feel clear, you sure feel like you are connected to something bigger than your life. Whatever is experienced and its whole intensity, I am sure you have moments of detachment where it feels like it’s a play that you just can’t look away from.

You’ve got this!

What is the solution? There is none.

Why do you even want one? Why not go as deep as you can into all this madness?

Because it’s painful? You’re stronger than that. Go on…find your light in all this darkness. We all need your light and that way in which only you can love.

May all the Angels be close to you when you feel you need them most. Close your eyes and feel the love flowing all around you. Your love is the greatest power. You are the most wonderful curious child, go and fight your dragons and win this.

Much love!

G

 

Crystal Cleanse – Understanding the Benefits of Cleansing Crystals

a photo of many colorful crystals that may be ready for a crystal cleanse

Crystals are a girl’s best friend

A crystal cleanse is a sweet and gentle ritual that will bring you closer to their power and light. Crystals bring so much beauty , protection and healing. And just by looking at them you feel happy. Holding one in your hand will make you feel better and a meditation with your favorite crystal is good for you.

They are so loving that they take on the negative energy around us so,  just like us , they need a purifying and a good recharge.  Normally they would be in the ground and have no issue being in perfect sync with the highest energy but because they are doing us a favor and being with us here, in our busy cities and having to witness all our drama, they need some sunshine, they need some rain, they need a good cleanse. It’s important that you do that once in a while, so that you get the maximum love from your colorful sparkly friends.

Crystal Therapy  includes the energy clearing process and doing it often and with great love will open you up to their energy.  I think a crystal energy clearing it’s just a moment of you acknowledging their power and love . I don’t think they really need a cleanse, but we do need to connect to them and this magic often enough. So doing a purifying ritual over them, actually purifies our own energy. So I don’t know who’s clearing who.

For me something really opened up when  I realized you don’t just have them laying around looking pretty, but you need to develop a relationship with your crystals. Clearing them, is you interreacting and saying hello to your crystals and every time you do, your relationship with them grows stronger. They are conscious and alive, not in the same way we are, it’s a different paradigm, yet here we are together and there’s love flowing.

 

crystals, colorful semiprecious stones of different shapes

How to do your beautiful crystal cleanse

There are so many ways and I am sure you have your favorite. I like to leave them for an hour in the sunshine, if it rains I put them outside in the rain, preferably on the ground.( But please be mindful and so some research , cause not all crystals do well with water. Selenite for example, is water soluble).

Burning incense over them, a few drops of holy water, a prayer , a thank you. You can imagine all the negative energy being swooshed away by Sweet Loving Angels.

Ask the divine Mother to bless your powerful loving crystals and charge them up with love and light.

Also you can always ask the Moon to  shine its love over them while you leave them by the window at night time. There are many rituals for every phase of the moon.

You can sing them a little song of appreciation. Tell your crystals how much you are grateful for all the healing and love they bring into your life. These little gems are like your little guardian angels.  They help protect you and keep you safe and grounded.

The more you appreciate them and open up to their energy, the more you talk and connect to your crystals , the more this energy of protection and healing will grow and you will able to access deeper layers of stone magic.

You are surrounded by grace, crystals are just another beautiful  reminder of that. I am so in love with them and always have one with me. It’s one of my anchors into the divine energy that surrounds me. Even though I am not always aware of their protection, I always feel better when I have them with me. I am holding a crystal in my hand right now 🙂

Lots of love. Hope you heal something really important for you in the next couple of months. Let the crystals help you with that.

Big hug!

G